Getting Out of Your Own Way
Saturday, January 28th, 2012
Well, I’ve learned that my Lifeway Masterclass workshops definitely need the full 3 to 3.5 hours to really get through the content effectively. And I’ve learned that the January Getting Out of Your Own Way masterclass feeds nicely into the February Living Intentionally masterclass. One is about finding your personal road-blocks and starting to overcome them. The other is about setting goals and recognizing success in realistic and nourishing ways.
I’ve also learned that my desk computer is now so old and out-of-date that I can’t download the updates to programs that support the online formats and applications I’d like to be utilizing. Like TweetDeck. Sigh. Definitely time for a new computer. And also, my apologies if you normally follow my daily tweets. It’s a technology glitch in the mainframe. And I’m working on that.
Now, I’m off to support the local library with my intentional collage art. We’re offering a workshop for setting intentions in the New Year, and I’m one of the guest artists. Such fun! I actually teach an intensive version of this as part of the Self-Centering Woman series (part 3). And I’m looking forward to that, too.
I think for most of us, Getting Out of Our Own Way requires that we learn to trust the process, and that we learn to take small steps in a chosen direction even though it’s scary. When we really care about an outcome, taking a risk can be scary. When we don’t really care about the outcome, then moving forward isn’t taking a risk. Submitting that paper for review, asking for a raise, participating in an art class, telling someone we love them, telling someone they’re sick and they need help. It’s easy to do if you aren’t really involved in the outcome.
If we have art in our hearts, but we’ve never let it out because– what if it isn’t good enough?! Then attending an art class is a risk. Our lifework, and our dream is somehow on the line. But if we just want to try something new, and we’re there to have fun and learn from our own mistakes and growing experience– then showing up is more about making sure the car has enough gas to get us there.
One way to set your fear aside is to approach that art class (or that conversation with a loved one) as the goal itself. If you do that, then you’ve succeeded, no matter what the outcome. No matter what comes after that. Showing up is actually succeeding. Showing up authentically, and standing in our own power as individuals– that’s the best possible outcome. Even if your art looks silly the first time you pick up that paint brush. Perfection is, after all, boring.
Today, I wish for you that you take heart, and Show Up Authentically in your own life.
Be Well.
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